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Get what you want
by Sandra Edwards
As I reflect back, I wanted to tell you why I was so convinced
that the Hugs concept was right for me..... and why its
right for you!
I am a Registered Dietitian and a Sports Nutritionist. As
long as I can remember, my passion has been to help people learn
how to pursue a healthier lifestyle. With every job that I had,
I tried to fit my mandate in - I worked with older adults, businesses
and high schools, co-workers, doctors, family, friends.
About seven years ago, I made a big decision to delve into
a private practice. An opportunity came up looking for entreprenurial
dietitians with a fitness interest and I took it up
to facilitate a healthy lifestyle program on my own but
being a part of a small group of dietitians in Toronto. At this
same time, I also evaluated the Hugs program, but decided against
it mainly because I needed someone closer who could mentor me
so I could learn from experience and grow in confidence. I underwent
several training courses in preparation for teaching. This included
a Fitness Leadership program, first aid, CPR, course training,
along with a personal development course called Money and
You. This last program which took place over an entire
weekend had a huge effect on me and still to this date.
During this program, I learned to understand myself better, to
accept myself for who I was, and to realize that it was OK to
make mistakes. In fact it was not only OK, it is often the best
form of learning!. I realized I had been afraid of failure
which was definitely holding me back from truly pursuing what
I truly was capable of doing.
I did teach the other healthy lifestyle program
and did well. I worked hard- and it was very rewarding. There
was, however, something that made me very uncomfortable in this
program and I was adamant it had to come out it
was a diet plan. albeit a healthy one it was still
a diet. Every time this lesson came up- I felt really uncomfortable.
I also realized that the program had the wrong focus - it still
focused on body changes measurements, body fat and weight
changes. Even though there was nothing seemingly unhealthy, we
were still teaching the diet mentality. We really did not get
into self esteem issues, feeling good about yourself enough.
We didnt touch emotional eating issues. At this time I
stopped teaching the program, and thought about Hugs again. I
made a decision to start up Hugs programs in my area. I already
knew how to market. Now I had something I truly could feel passionate
about. Every time I pick up the You Count, Calories Dont
book, I regain my excitement. I now get group support via email,
fax and phone. I love being a part of a bigger picture
where there are facilitators around the world teaching the Hugs
program. I dont dwell on the past. It has helped make me
appreciate Hugs
even more!
At this time, even though I felt right about my decision with
Hugs, I had a huge obstacle. With a private practice as a part-time
venture for 7 years along with another part-time job,
it left me little time for my family (I have two children 7,
and 9 yrs old) and little time for myself, let alone starting
up a new program! Along with my husbands support, I gave
up my secure part-time job to expand my private practice
(which enabled me to pursue Hugs) and have a bit of time for
myself. It was scary at first, but now, I really know
Ive made the right decision.
My first Hugs group programs are rolling out now. I have started
many individuals with the Hugs program, and look forward to starting
up a support group. My nutrition practice is doing very well.
Im able to once again, pursue other personal interests
playing tennis and running, and spend more time with my
family.
Eating is a very personal thing and I commend everyone
for taking that big step to change their lives. We do need to
be at peace with food food is fuel and we need to retrain
our thought process to get out of the ever-present diet mentality
that surrounds us. Most of my clients initially want to lose
weight, and think they need a structured plan I convince
them otherwise Ive seen too many individuals jeopardize
themselves by relying on the scale. Diets dont work! We
need to learn how to trust ourselves again.
Enjoy your journey and keep feeling good about yourself
you are worth it. It is possible to get to the point of
preferring healthier foods because you want them. It is possible
to live a healthy lifestyle where you need not ever diet again.
Let yourself believe that you can.
Remember You Count, Calories Dont.
Sandra Edwards, BSc, RD |